People respond differently.  Personal response to war can differ from one individual to another. You might experience a variety of the things listed below. The information on this page is presented to raise awareness of common reactions to war. Below the common responses to war are some suggestions for ways to cope.

Be compassionate with yourself.  Allow yourself to feel whatever feelings come up. Realize that a wide range of emotions are normal. Some of us may have stronger reactions because we know people who are directly involved in the war or may be dealing with current challenges in our lives. Many of our basic assumptions of safety, meaning, and spirituality may be challenged. Be patient with yourself and the emotions that come up. Give yourself time to process them and receive support from others. Look for ways to experience hope and happiness.

Help is available.  If you feel significant emotional distress or feel that these responses interfere with your ability to function normally, then professional assistance may be helpful. If you would like to make an appointment to talk to a counselor or if you have any questions please feel free to contact the Counseling Center at 285-1746.

Common Emotions

FEAR	ANGER	SADNESS	CONFUSION	HAPPY
anxiety	resentment	grief	torn	confident
insecurity	outrage	emotional pain	shame/pride	proud
vulnerability	skepticism	loss	hesitant	hopeful
powerlessness	dissillusionment	hopeless	torn	grateful
uncertainty	vengeful	helpless	troubled	excited
disgusted	tearful	disheartened	unsettled	enthusiastic
guarded	ridiculed	ashamed	undecided	encouraged
tense	annoyed	defeated	misunderstood	energized

Coping with Reactions to War

Make lifestyle changes:
Maintain routine
Eat right
Exercise regularly
Develop and maintain social support
Avoid excessive use of caffeine, alcohol, and drugs
Develop positive self-affirming attitudes toward yourself

Do specific activities to reduce anxiety:
Stretch
Progressive muscle relaxation
Safe place visual imagery
Prayer/meditation
Laughter
Focus on positive self-talk

War related activities:
Limit war-related news coverage
Do altruistic deeds
Form an emergency plan
Peace or pro-troop rallies