Physical Contact

In general, Midwestern Americans are very friendly people. It is not uncommon for female friends to hug each other in greeting. However, physical contact between men is generally reserved to a handshake. Greetings are contained to a wave hello or goodbye. Couples also hug, kiss lightly, and hold hands in public.

Dating

Dating customs in the U.S. have a modern, Western minded approach. Women expect a high amount of respect and cat-calling or unwanted touching will result in anger and if continued, can lead to charges of harassment. American men often compliment a woman and ask her to coffee/lunch/dinner if interested in dating her. Although some men in the US still prefer to ask women on dates, many women also ask men. Just as men do, women can compliment a man and ask him out.

Timeliness

In the U.S. it is very important to be on time, in both casual and professional situations. If you make an appointment with a professor, it is important to arrive promptly. To arrive late is a sign of disrespect, and you should always call if you are running late or unable to keep your appointment. When meeting with friends, arrangements are somewhat less rigid, but should still be treated with respect. If it is a relaxed party, you may not need to show up right on time.

Smoking

While people in the US still smoke, its popularity has declined. There are now many laws restricting where smokers can light up. Smoking is prohibited in many restaurants and public buildings. Smoking is not allowed in any building on Ball State campus, which includes the residence halls. You must be 18 years of age to smoke in the U.S. and underage smoking or buying cigarettes for underage smokers is a violation of the law and can result in fines.
Smoking is prohibited within 30 feet of any buildings on the Ball State campus.

Drinking

The drinking age in the US is 21. Anyone under the age of 21 that consumes alcohol is breaking the law and may be punished by fines and possibly jail time. Minors may not enter bars or liquor stores, or transport or hold alcohol.

Tipping

Tipping is common practice in the US. Although it is not required, it is a social custom and recommended to do so. Many people that receive tips are not paid minimum wage and depend on the tips as part of their income. The following is a brief reference on how much you should tip for different services.